For neurodivergent moms, the hospital setting can feel overwhelming. Home birth offers a sensory-friendly, personalized alternative that allows you to create an empowering birth experience on your terms. From familiar faces to a calming environment, home birth puts you in control of your journey.

Navigating pregnancy and breastfeeding as a neurodivergent mom can feel overwhelming, especially when it comes to managing ADHD without clear guidance on medication use. This post dives into the realities of taking ADHD meds like Adderall during pregnancy and breastfeeding, debunks harmful assumptions, and empowers moms to advocate for themselves with accurate information and compassionate support.

Quiet quitting—it’s when you do the bare minimum, stop putting everyone else’s needs ahead of yours, stop bending over backward to make other people happy or comfortable, and set clear boundaries around your time and energy. Because you f*cking matter, damn it.

When you’re a neurodivergent mom (ADHD, autistic, anxious), the postpartum experience can hit you like a bag of potatoes and too many of us are stumbling through it without even a warning, let alone support. Too often, a neurodivergent brain goes hand in hand with postpartum depression and anxiety.

SO WHY IS NOBODY TALKING ABOUT IT?

I was completely blindsided by my postpartum experience. I couldn’t grasp the idea that motherhood meant being constantly needed by someone every minute of every day for the rest of my life.

We live in the wealthiest country to ever exist on this planet, yet every day new parents are faced with an impossible choice: go back to work and sacrifice their physical and mental recovery, or stay home longer and risk financial instability. For millions of families across the United States of America, the lack of paid parental leave isn't just an economic issue; it is a legit mental health crisis.

Paid leave in the United States is a privilege, and if you're one of the lucky ones to live in a state that offers paid leave or work for a company that offers it, be grateful. At the time I’m writing this, only 12 states and Washington, D.C., have implemented paid parental leave programs.

The postpartum period is an insanely vulnerable time for new parents, especially for new moms, and without the proper support—which we do not get here in America—we find ourselves struggling to heal physically, adjust to our new roles, learn how to breastfeed, while sleep deprived, and, on top of all of it, we get to stress out financially. On top of it, for most people in a partnered relationship, it's the male partner who goes back to work sooner than the female partner; she ends up, by default, dealing with all of the mental, physical, and emotional labor of parenting and household management. It's a f*cked-up system, and it needs to change.

Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) is a profile of both autism and ADHD, where any kind of demand—no matter how small—feels like a loss of control. It’s not that we’re intentionally avoiding things; it’s that our brains are wired to feel panic when something is expected of us. And in postpartum, where demands are endless—feeding, changing, soothing—it’s like overload on every level. For moms with PDA, this can quickly lead to postpartum anxiety because the constant demands feel suffocating, triggering that “fight or flight” response, and making it harder to cope with day-to-day life.

Lanisoh conducted a survey a few years back and the while the majority of women who participated felt prepared to care for their baby, 92% said there were parts of the postpartum period they were not prepared for. Nearly two-thirds or more were unprepared for breastfeeding, mental health concerns, lack of sleep, and physical recovery.

We’re sold a story about the postpartum period by Hollywood and the global baby product industry, with a market size estimated at over 320 billion in 2023. The global market is dominated by guess who? Yup — the baby care products market in the US rang in to the tune of USD 25.5 billion in 2023.

Our expectations are way off, and that’s one of the risk factors for postpartum anxiety and depression.

It’s no wonder so many of us out here struggling with postpartum anxiety. Why so many of us hate our husbands after we have a baby. It makes sense that we’re erupting with postpartum rage over a spilled glass of water.  

In this post, I open up about my experience with postpartum anxiety—how it affected my daily life, my struggles with car rides, getting time alone, and how it felt to feel such a lack of control over my life. By sharing my story, I hope to help others understand the reality of postpartum anxiety and offer support and hope to anyone going through it -- This is temporary. You’re not alone. You will survive.

Postpartum isn't supposed to feel this hard. If you're juggling breastfeeding, sleep deprivation, and partner resentment, you're not alone—and you're not failing. And if you're neurospicy, it can be a thousand times harder. Learn 5 ways to make it through without drowning under society's unrealistic expectations.

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Perfectionism can make the postpartum period tougher for neurodivergent moms, amplifying anxiety and even leading to rage. Learn how to silence your inner critic, build authentic support systems, and parent collaboratively. Remember, you’re already enough—imperfections and all.

As a placenta encapsulation specialist, I spend a lot of time clearing up misinformation and misconceptions. People have all sorts of opinions, from those who are genuinely curious to those who, for whatever reason, are dead set on talking folks out of taking placenta pills. I fully understand that placenta encapsulation isn’t for everyone, but I am fully committed to helping people make informed decisions about how to support themselves postpartum.